Before everyone makes a quick judgement, hear me out.?

My husband of 3 yrs is a addict. Now I totally realize that some of you will chastise me and explain how it's 'just' looking, that most men do look at and it leads nowhere. That men are visual. That it's all over the net. That it will enhance my life with him. But, what if they are alittle more, let's say, tangible? meet locals, love me.com need live, ?? what if they are that sort of ? I say it's over, I am leaving and that is NOT a form of cheating, that IS cheating.